our trip to denver

This past weekend we flew to Denver, CO for an extended weekend to visit my sister and her family, as well as see Jimmy's aunt, uncle and cousins from Colorado Springs.

We love Denver and every time we visit we leave saying we wish John Deere would move us there :)

We started the trip on Thursday and the kiddos traveled great. We were upgraded to first class because of all Jimmy's miles so that was a nice treat and much appreciated with the kiddos. It gave us lots of extra leg room so Lily spent majority of the trip on the floor reading books - it was perfect! Preston did awesome too, sleeping most of the way and didn't fuss at all. I was a little fearful that the folks around us, that paid the extra bucks for first class, would be annoyed that two little ones were joining them but we found that most everyone was super friendly and enjoyed them.

Once we landed in Denver we picked up our rental car and then headed out to meet up with Jimmy's family for the evening. We met them at the Elephant Bar restaurant, which is downtown Lakewood, and spent quite a few hours just catching up and eating. After dinner we were off to my sister's for the remainder of our trip. We were greeted with big hugs and smiles for two special little nephews and spent a little time chatting and hanging out before calling it a night on Thursday.

Friday we relaxed and let the kids play at their house, took a walk to pick up nephew Asher from school and see where he goes, then let the kiddos take naps in the afternoon and play outside in the awesome weather! before heading downtown for the night. We met up with my brother in law, who works downtown, for dinner at Rock Bottom Brewery - yummy! after dinner walked around a bit, and then of course had to hit up Pink Berry frozen yogurt - so yummy! I told them that was the only thing I wanted to be sure and do while we were there :)

Saturday we spent majority of the morning and early afternoon at their local rec center that has an awesome indoor pool. It's shaped like a pirate ship and is so fun for small kids. Preston even got in on the action and loved floating around. Lily even went down the biggest water slide that had that is a tunnel and goes outside the rec! She was loving it! Saturday night we made homemade pizzas and the kiddos made their own, then they enjoyed a picnic on the floor while we munched on our pizza and sipped some wine!

Sunday we explored the Denver Nature and Science Center. They have season passes which allowed us to tag along for free and it was a fun fun place. They had lots for the little ones to explore, including a discovery zone with all kinds of activities good for little ones their size. Lily really enjoyed all the animal exhibits too while Asher's favorite was definitely the dinosaurs - that little one is quite the smarty pants! After that the kiddos took naps and we packed up to head home :(

We had such a fun time and are so thankful for the time we get to spend in Colorado. We really love visiting and my sister is such a wonderful hostess - making all sorts of yummy food, cleaning the house extra well to help with my allergies, and always having lots of fun options for things to do! We hope to make it out their again in the summer for some rafting and camping!

4 months

Preston turned 4 months old over the weekend and had his 4 month check up yesterday. Once again I'm blown away by how fast this time goes. I love love the baby stage, except for the getting up in the night part, and so it makes me sad to watch it go so quickly however, I love watching them learn and discover new things and explore the world around them.

He's a growing boy and continues to be a little on the chubby side - which I LOVE! Yesterday at his appointment he weighed in at 17 lbs and 5 oz and measured 25 1/4 inches long. That puts him in the 80% percentile for weight and 60% for height.

He seems to be doing so many new things this month too - playing with his toes (I personally think babies putting their toes in their mouth is just the cutest), playing with small toys, chewing on everything!, rolling over from back to front, moving from side to side lots and lots, and trying to sit up are some of the big ones from this past month.

He is still a pretty darn good baby. He loves to be held, what baby doesn't, but seems to be happy on his own for short amounts of time too. We are working on transitioning him to his crib from our room which is proving to be a process. It's so strange to me how a baby can know the difference between beds, how is that? He will be perfectly asleep, I will move him to his crib and eyes pop open and crying begins! Good news is he's doing all napping in his crib, unless we are out and about, so I know we will get there at night time too. 

He is still wearing 3-6M clothes and I may try some cereal and/or oatmeal this month as well. I didn't do much of it with Lily but may try it at night to see if he will get through a little longer at night. Just recently he has been waking up twice in the night instead of his one time, like he had before. I still won't complain about that but really miss that once a night only wake up :)

Other than that nothing much new with him - he continues to bring so much joy and fun to our household and lives. He is beginning to interact a little more with Lily and lights up when she comes to "play" with him. So fun to watch their relationship develop - I hope they stay little buddies for a while!

4 month pictures:

getting big!

all smiles

this one cracks me up

trying to sit up alone

and of course big sis had to get in one!

our 2012 christmas

We had such a fun Christmas this year! Having kiddos around makes the season even more special and we really enjoyed lots of time with our families this year.

We started our Christmas kick off in Ankeny with dinner at a friends house, visiting with some old friends that it'd be far too long since we've seen each other.

The following morning we enjoyed Christmas donuts at home and had Christmas as a family of 4. Lily's big gift this year was a play kitchen and she loved it. It was so fun to watch her with her new toys and open the presents. She got to open double the presents because we let her open Preston's too :) Jimmy and I didn't exchange gifts this year because we are taking a trip together in the Spring. We also have a hard time coming up with gift ideas for our parents for us and really don't NEED anything at all so we decided not to get them for each other this year.

karaoke machine

elmo puzzle

little man just hanging out while lily opened his presents

Later that afternoon we packed up the car and hit the road North to the Grover's. We spent the weekend before Christmas and Christmas Eve at the Grover's and had so much fun. We did lots of relaxing, playing in the snow, snowmobiling, movie watching, snow tubing, baking, and just enjoying the company. We got lots of fun gifts and since our kiddos are the only kids in the family on that side, so far, they get plenty of attention :)

lily making play dough with grandma grover

silly girl

my sweeties in their christmas best

our family 

gma & gpa grover with their grandkids

four wheelin' in the snow - lily and jimmy

aunt jalissa & preston

playing her new barbie guitar

one tired little girl - fell asleep at dinner with food in hand!

Late Christmas Eve night we headed to my parents to spend a few days and enjoy Christmas with my family. Again we spent the next few days relaxing, watching old videos, playing games, shopping, and playing outside. There are a few more kiddos on this side so that means things are always a little louder and there's always lots of laughs!

kiddos in their christmas jammies

karoke with cousins

checkers with grandpa

opening presents

happy boy

our family christmas day

upside down but of the 2 smallest cousins - paisley and preston

mom and dad with 5 of their 7 grandkids

grandma and the girls in their matching sweaters

great grandma davis and cousins

great grandma and grandpa dieken and cousins

We ended up staying a few more days than we had maybe originally thought/planned but that allowed us to enjoy lunch with a few friends from high school, a play date with Lily's good little buddy Lily, Jimmy and I to enjoy a rare night out with friends, Danielle and Matt, an impromptu trip to the outlets  with my mom and mother in law, and an anniversary dinner for my parents at yummy brown bottle - a family favorite!

Overall we had such a fun break and really enjoyed our time with our families and Jimmy's time off work. Of course we are still playing a little bit of catch up on things around here since we spent most the time back but that's ok, it was well worth it!

Hope you had a wonderful Christmas as well!

the 2 lily's

mom and dad on their anniversary - 37 years!

an honest heart

Today I write with an honest and open heart.

The months leading up to the Christmas season have been a bit difficult for me. It seemed like things in life for me were just unsettled and flat out difficult. While I was having a more than anticipated difficult time adjusting to 2 kids and staying at home full time we also moved to Ankeny.

I was excited about this move. I tend to like bigger cities, I was looking forward to living by my sister and best friend from college, and I wasn't sure I was quite ready to settle down "for good" in Cedar Falls. However, this transition and move for me was way more challenging than I expected.

The first few months of having Preston around were just plain hard. It seemed like one kid was always in need of a diaper change, I couldn't seem to get them to ever be asleep at the same time, I had forgotten how much a newborn eats and quickly became overwhelmed with the task of nursing, I then got a breast infection which caused nursing to be extremely painful, and things just seemed to be difficult. I felt totally unprepared for the task of 2 children and their demands. I felt like no one told me it was going to be this difficult, and if they did, I didn't believe them. Combine all this with the typical postnatal emotions and you have one hot mess!

Then we moved to Ankeny. My stress level elevated immensely and quite frankly I was just a bit sad. I felt like I didn't have anyone I could really talk to, Jimmy was putting in long hours at the office due to the adjustments surrounding a new job for him, and the days just seemed long.

So, those few months for me were just difficult. I didn't feel like myself, I felt a lot of sadness while I should have been feeling so grateful for our new life, I felt like moving was the wrong decision for our family when I should have been anxious to explore a new place.

So what changed and how are things now? One day I just realized I was being silly - it really is almost as simple as that. I talked to Jimmy about a lot of the feelings I had been holding inside - a lot of which he already knew because he knows me so well - and we just talked about things that we could change to make it better.

And so we have a list. A list of goals, changes, resolutions - whatever you want to call them, that we are focusing on, as a family and individually, in 2013. And I thought I'd share our list of with you.

1. Focus on healthier eating habits by: making a meal plan every week, only plan on eating out 1 meal/week, have a fruit and vegetable with every meal, and no dessert unless it's a special occasion.
2. Do something active as a family at least once a week
3. Find a church home and get involved in at least one way
4. Establish and commit to a better bedtime routine with the kids by: being consistent on the time, being consistent on how they fall asleep, and being consistent on whether or not they come into our bed
5. Go on a date at least once a month
6. Have dinner with Jacinda and Clint (my sister and brother in law) once a week as often as possible
7. Go on a trip without the kids this year
8. Visit Colorado twice this year
For Jimmy:
1. Spend at least 1 full week at the farm during Spring and Harvest season
2. Buy a dirt bike and ride it a few weekends this year with friends
3. Work less - focus on being home at 5pm every day
For Jenna:
1. Join at least 1 club, organization, or group this year
2. Establish a cleaning schedule and ask Jimmy for help
3. Update the bow blog and work on increasing the business
4. Do something fun with the kids at least once a week outside the home

So that's our list. I feel like they are so realistic yet will be such positive changes for us as a family and as individuals. I am beyond blessed to have a husband that recognizes when I am struggling and is there to walk along side me and figure out how to make it better. I also know that it's just me that feels alone, that I am absolutely not alone, never. Aside from the fact that God is always always there for me, I have countless friends and family that I know is there, if I just reach out and ask for their help!

So that's that - an honest post from a very honest place in my heart. It's not always easy for me to admit when I'm struggling but I know that it is so helpful not only for me, but others that may be experiencing some of the same things.